Saturday, May 13, 2006

My view of a relationship...

From a convo with a friend from class:

it's hard to define, but I will tell you what it isn't

it isn't based on physical/sexual desires

it isn't based on selfish desires (what can I get out of it?), but on what you can do FOR the other person (how can I help her out and complement her life?)
it isn't based on your own emotional security but on a mutual support base (you're there for her, she's there for you)
it is also a search for someone that you love
the main question is how does her being with you help her, and not how it helps you
it's a selfless quest to make a special someone's life that much better
in the hopes of discovering someone that also complements you so that you can be as happy as possibly can be, together, in a couple, as one.


Anonymous Anonymous said...

Physical desire should not be the only deciding factor in a relationship, however, it is a very important part, just like having common interests and preferably common goals.

10:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The only relationship you have to look forward to is with your right hand. Your a lonely little man who will only get a wife because she's marrying you for money.

1:29 PM  

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